What is Pegging?

Pegging is anal sex for men. The female partner penetrates the male wearing a strap-on, usually from behind, as he “bends over” like in a dog-style position. Pegging provides a whole new world of sexual stimulation for the male partner, especially prostate stimulation . It also offers exciting submissive role-play opportunities and female domination (i.e., Femdom).

So how do you get started with pegging? Tim and I believe it all begins with you as a couple. You need to have open communication about matters concerning your sex lives. Once you have agreed to try something different, it won’t be so hard to start a whole new adventure in the bedroom. From there, you can start planning on the pegging harness you want to try, accessories, penetration positions, and more.

As I’ve said earlier, pegging isn’t for everybody. Some male friends refuse because they don’t want to be labeled gay. But there’s nothing gay about it. Pegging is a unique way of lovemaking that satisfies both partners.

However, you must do it right. Here’s a quick guide for all of you interested in living out your husband pegging fantasies.

1. Open communication

You and your partner must talk about pegging. Anal play, especially among men, can entail discomforts and even pain, especially for beginners.

Talk beforehand. Ask your boyfriend if he is okay with the idea of pegging. If not, don’t insist on it. Respect is still more important than sex.

It’s also vital that you talk while pegging. Ask your man if he’s comfortable or if he wants you to stop. Keeping communication lines open while doing the act can help both of you relax and enjoy the whole thing.

Finally, it helps if you also talk after doing the deed. You can share and exchange impressions on your first pegging experience so you can perform better the next time around. You can offer suggestions like trying out other toys, lubes, or experimenting with various positions.

2. Get Comfortable

Having a dildo stuck on their anus isn’t every man’s dream, and some are intimidated by the idea. So how do you get your man comfortable with anal play? The best strategy is to start on your own.

You can practice by putting your finger inside your man’s anus. Use a lot of lubrication to avoid pain, or better yet, use latex gloves.

Another good idea is to experiment with a prostate massage or a prostate massager to have a feel of it. If your man feels comfortable with it, it won’t be hard to have that strap-on inside him. Let your boyfriend or husband explore on his own. Be hot or not gibi uygulamalar patient because sooner or later, he would agree to the idea of pegging once he’s ready.

3. Know Your Man’s Anatomy

The girlfriend is more in control during pegging, and as such, you have to be responsible enough to know your man’s anatomy. You should also be aware of the basics of safe anal play, and you can look up information about the man’s anus and prostate gland.

If you’ve been together for a long time, like Tim and I, you have an idea what turns him on. I know Tim loves it when I masturbate him; that’s why I am doing it during our pegging sessions.

Finally, you need to talk to during pegging because your man can instruct you on how far you should go in, which way to strike, and more.

4. Shop for your toy together

I think it’s a must that both you and your man shop together for the best strap-on. In particular, the wife must be comfortable wearing it, and at the same time, the man must be okay about having it inside his butt.